Wednesday, 17 November 2010
Wednesday, 10 November 2010
i dont think weed is bad for you
I don't actually believe that most people smoke because it's cool. although some people just take it to feel among or TRY and look hard/bad gois
Some people use weed to relax, some use it for medicinal purposes, other people use it because it's fun.
Don't generalize and say everyone does it for the same reason.
Also, what exactly does maturity have to do with smoking weed? And for those who say people who use it are low-lifes, that's sad that you feel you need to judge someone based on something like weed!!!!.
I contribute to society everyday, as does my buddy femi. We are both successful in our academics and we are doing very well in our lives. But the simple fact that we enjoy ourselves in our own home by smoking weed makes us scum?
It's the people that judge for no reason that are the problem with society. Not people like me.
Why are girls so confused?
Girls. Girls are confusing, because they, unlike guys, aren't simple. they always try to improve on EVERYTHING, and make the best it can be. Homeowrk, projects. guys..
But most guys don't care about that. They wonder why girls are so confusing in relationships.
girls...they like it if the relationship is filled with fun, or action. No girl wants to be in a boring, lousy relationship. So girls try to spice it up a bit, add some drama. You guys may not understand this reasoning, but its true. so LISTEN UP, MALES OF THE EARTH!!
If you find a girl confusing, its either because she's finding things to be a little....blah, or she's challenged, or she just likes to be confusing.
Try to understand guys. If you're wondering why a girl is so confusing in a relationship, do something. Take her out to a movie, go shopping with her (MAJOR POINTS), just do something!
girls are also constantly trying to analyze boys words, or they try to figure out what or how we feel about them. they sometimes over react and play hard to get, but thats just cause they like you. if your girlfriend is being a little confusing, just ask her, or maybe its time to say goodbye...
"He who permits himself to tell a lie once, finds it easier to do it a second time." Thomos Jefferson
But most guys don't care about that. They wonder why girls are so confusing in relationships.
girls...they like it if the relationship is filled with fun, or action. No girl wants to be in a boring, lousy relationship. So girls try to spice it up a bit, add some drama. You guys may not understand this reasoning, but its true. so LISTEN UP, MALES OF THE EARTH!!
If you find a girl confusing, its either because she's finding things to be a little....blah, or she's challenged, or she just likes to be confusing.
Try to understand guys. If you're wondering why a girl is so confusing in a relationship, do something. Take her out to a movie, go shopping with her (MAJOR POINTS), just do something!
girls are also constantly trying to analyze boys words, or they try to figure out what or how we feel about them. they sometimes over react and play hard to get, but thats just cause they like you. if your girlfriend is being a little confusing, just ask her, or maybe its time to say goodbye...
"He who permits himself to tell a lie once, finds it easier to do it a second time." Thomos Jefferson
Tuesday, 9 November 2010
why need cloud your judgement
I’ve been reading another fascinating book this week about how crazy we humans are... called irrationality...the basic premise of the book is that while we tend to believe that human beings are generally sensible and rational, a great deal of the thinking we do is so far from rational it’s bordering on dumb and even dangerous.it answered a few of my questions why we cloud our judgments for example we hear "yans" about people probably people we are yet to meet or people we know but do not talk to... if for instance what we hear is not so good most of us begin to judge that person why?most of the judgements and choices we make are based on snap judgements, lazy thinking and irrational reasoning... bear in mind some of these key points that I’ve summarised for you is from the book. Oh, and they could also be very useful for sharpening your communication and persuasive skills…
Our naturally lazy thinking. One of the main forms of irrationality that human beings are subject to is what is known as the ‘availability error’. When making any kind of decision we tend to be influenced very strongly by pieces of information that are most readily available, vivid and or emotionally powerful in our minds - rather than taking time to weight up a lot of (dry) information on the subject.
How you can use this to your advantage. If you’re meeting somebody new, for example, bear in mind that your mind will probably make an opinion of that person within the first few minutes and will be reluctant to absorb any new information that might falsify that view. If you are trying to suggest a plan to another person, bear in mind that the first one or two things you tell them might almost be the only things they really absorb.
Also, if you’re writing an exam paper or doing a speech, make the first bit the best because that’s where most people will make their judgement.
Irrationality in crowds. Another form of human irrationality is our tendency to conform or go along with the crowd.. even on occasions when we know it is wrong. There is a certain embarrassment, it would seem, in taking a different view from those around you - or in being seen to look or act differently from others. Simply realising how irrational this kind of sheep mentality is can be can be very liberating and may actually help us improve our self-image and feeling of self-actualisation and autonomy.
Emotion is another thing that clouds our ability to think rationally. If we are in a really good mood, for example, we are much more likely to judge everything in a more positive light. If we are in a low mood we are more likely to see things in a poor light. It is a good idea, therefore, not to make important decisions when you are feeling either high or low but rather wait ‘till you are feeling more neutral best believe this i am a victim of acting towards my emotions and it was not pretty its all good.
we “act spontaneously, and although this may be endearing or irritating depending on one’s viewpoint, it can lead to irrational acts that is to say, had they thought before acting, they might have acted in a way more likely to achieve their ends.”sutherland says
well thats it... where i am leading towards is that we have to be a bit open minded and its not everything you see or hear you should believe.... have a mind of your own my dad always told me.
i hope i ddnt just rant about irrelevant shit and you learn something from all that has been written. just thought i should share what i have learnt this week with you lot thanks for reading.."The quality of a person's life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor."Vince Lombard
So it begins...
Anyone who knows the people that have started this blog will know what we're about, if you dont, let me summarise this in three words: sex, drugs and rock n roll! (well that's the dream anyway) but no seriously, this is what the blog's about.
Now, some of you might think that's a bit crude and to be perfectly honest it is, but that's really not all there is to it, it's about voicing our opinions on anything which crosses ours or even your minds, so for all of my (fellow) nymphomaniacs it wont just be greasy disgusting stories about how this girl got given etc. It's about anything and everything which we think is interesting.
At this point I'd also like to mention that I am not a blogger, so pardon not-so-great blogging skills, we'd probably tend to ramble on and on about random shit which no one would care about or necessarily agree with, and its cool if you disagree, we love such, but if you disagree, please for the love of GOD, don't start swearing or acting like you're ready to assassinate our families. Just be civilised and we'll be civilised as well (at least to the best of our abilities).
This has probably been a painful read, and if your eyes are bleeding, I apologize profusely, if however you enjoyed it, we'll be back, with some disturbingly cool ideas so please continue reading...
P.S one of us is extremely enthusiastic about this and so we have our own email address, if you feel like we should talk about something because you think we've got some mad takes on some topics then email us at lostinthoughts@yahoo.co.uk
Well that's it from me. Smoke weed! It's healthier than cigs - never mind the side effects
Much love
William Shakespeare
Now, some of you might think that's a bit crude and to be perfectly honest it is, but that's really not all there is to it, it's about voicing our opinions on anything which crosses ours or even your minds, so for all of my (fellow) nymphomaniacs it wont just be greasy disgusting stories about how this girl got given etc. It's about anything and everything which we think is interesting.
At this point I'd also like to mention that I am not a blogger, so pardon not-so-great blogging skills, we'd probably tend to ramble on and on about random shit which no one would care about or necessarily agree with, and its cool if you disagree, we love such, but if you disagree, please for the love of GOD, don't start swearing or acting like you're ready to assassinate our families. Just be civilised and we'll be civilised as well (at least to the best of our abilities).
This has probably been a painful read, and if your eyes are bleeding, I apologize profusely, if however you enjoyed it, we'll be back, with some disturbingly cool ideas so please continue reading...
P.S one of us is extremely enthusiastic about this and so we have our own email address, if you feel like we should talk about something because you think we've got some mad takes on some topics then email us at lostinthoughts@yahoo.co.uk
Well that's it from me. Smoke weed! It's healthier than cigs - never mind the side effects
Much love
William Shakespeare
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